2.5 Yr Old Regressing?

In some ways 2.5 year olds are still "babies"....why make them grow up too fast anyway? It is natural to "regress" when there are changes...even adults do that if you haven't noticed. :):) Why would there be harm in letting her have a binky? Comfort is comfort. Or she could use her thumb which is actual a very good way to self soothe. Either way, I wouldn't worry about this....just do what it takes to make her feel safe and secure and enjoy the fact that in some ways she is still a "baby". Before you know it she will be a teenager and you will miss these times.

My daughter refused to use a pacifier when we tried to give it to her as an infant. However, now she often wants one at night to chew on. She is clearly teething and its a convenient form factor for something to massage her gums.
Maybe you can find a slightly more appropriate substitution - a teething toy, or a small stuffed animal to hug?

Your daughter sounds like she is experiencing some sort of stress. Instead of a binky, get a special animal (stuffed and small) or blanket (again small) that she can carry around and feel safe with. It would help her self soothe herself. She would be able to take it to the daycare. The problem is, you can never loose it. (You might want to buy two or three of them at the outset.)

When my kids started having nightmares, I bought my daughter a bear, my son got a lion, and told them that this animal was their "protector" when things were scary in the night. It worked like a "dream".

Good luck.

She very well might be affected by all the flurry of getting a house ready to sell and is looking for extra comfort. I would look for ways to give her that comfort. If she potty trains, great, but if not, the stress of moving might really make it hard for her at this time.

Hi A.,..
I would agree.. sometimes 2 1/2 yr olds still like to be cuddled and babied!! I love rocking my almost 3 yr old when he will let me.
When I read your request.. my first thought was molars coming in. try some teething gel on a toothbrush or baby spoon (the soft colored ones).

take care!
-marg.