D.; yes it can be hard to have them as bridesmaids etc, but you can in corporate them in by having family walk down the aisle when they reach the top they take a seat, some weddings grandma or grandpa , can walk, with younger ones, or the parents, they would be first down the aisle, the family, then they may take their seats, or they may remain standing while the rest of the processian came down the aisle, you can also have family boutineers, or flowers of some sort,and you can also put the family in the receiving line if you have one, i was at one wedding, where a small baby was involved, they decorated up a little wagon with white and lace, and had some older kids pull the baby down the aisle, and of course they sat down at front and the baby went to the mom or someone who could care for it, at the front, well any way just have fun ,and enjoy , D. s