R.J.
Hi L.-
First of all, it will be okay. I had a complication from my c-section when my son was born in 2003 (my uterus was also adhered to my bladder, uterine wall). I finally had a hysterectomy in 2004 at 32 years old. I will be honest with you, I felt a lot of the things that you are talking about. Having a hysterectomy at a young age is emotionally tough. I was so scared beforehand. But I have to tell you, it was ABSOLUTELY THE BEST DECISION I could have made. I was stunned how much better I felt. I had felt bad for so long, I couldn't even remember what feeling good was like. The recovery took a little while (and you'll certainly need help as a stay-at-home mom!) but I promise you it will be worth it. Do everything you can to make sure the doctor does not take your ovaries-- that's what makes your hormones. As long as you keep your ovaries, you won't have to take hormone replacements and the only thing that will feel different is that you won't have a period. And that, truly, is AWESOME. Sex is the same. You actually feel a little better because it doesn't feel like your emotions fluctuate as much during the month. Yes, surgery sucks. But there are times when it is worth it. If I can answer any mor specific questions, please don't hesitate to ask. Good luck to you.