High Fsh Score

Hi Camille,
When my FSH started to creep up I went straight to the high tech methods. Now I am have three beautiful children. Know that there is technology out there for you. For me, attitude was everything and totally in my control. Hearing stories of other people's success helped me out a lot. If you go for the assisted route and want to talk, just let me know.
S.

Will they let you take the test again? When I was only 33, I had an FSH of 18. That was so out-of-the-ordinary for a 33-year-old, that they did the test again a few months later and it was an 8.5! I can't give you any pregnancy experiences because I have two blocked tubes, but that's independent of the FSH score. I don't know if a fluctuating FSH score is common or not.

If I listened to what the doctors told me, I may not have the three children I now have. Don't let it get you down, just do all the good things you know you can do to get your body prepared. Acupuncture and chinese herbs (powdered not raw) worked wonders for me. I had a history of Endometriosis and very unreliable periods for years and years before we conceived. Stay positive, it will all work out as it should.

D.

Hi Camille!

I haven't had a high FSH score, but have friends that have struggled with this "condition". There are lots and lots of different things that can cause a person to have a high FSH level including a condition called Diminished Ovarian Reserve (DOR), problems with the adrenal gland, discontinuing certain birth control pills, certain autoimmune disorders, breastfeeding, smoking excessively, etc. Having a high FSH level doesn't necessarily mean that you can't get pregnant or that you don't have options. I would suggest visiting a reproductive endocrinologist if you truly do want to have another baby. They will do more extensive tests than your average OB/GYN and they tend to be more informative on what options you do have, based on the findings of their tests. Going to see an RE doesn't necessarily mean that you have to have IVF or IUI, but they will at least give you more information about what options you do have.

I would also recommend, if you want to know more about what's going on with your cycle, that you read Taking Charge of Your Fertility. I really think it is a MUST-READ for every woman, regardless of whether or not you are trying to conceive.

Hope this helps!

Hey Camille~
First, let me say how sorry I am for the loss of your little baby. I miscarried last March, and it is very painful emotionally. I also say "Yay!" for your renewed efforts to conceive. I am 38 and due with our fourth child in late March. We experienced two years of infertility prior to the birth of our first child, so I can understand the pain you're going through there, too. While I don't remember exactly what an FSH score even is, I do have a recommendation. There is a book published through the Couple to Couple League called "Fertility, Cycles, and Nutrition" that has been SO helpful to us. It is written by Marilyn Shannon and I'm pretty sure that you can buy it on the CCL website: www.ccli.org. It addresses all kinds of fertility issues, like age, miscarriage, male infertility, etc. It will suggest specific steps to take to try to remedy the problem, and there is even a section where you can contact a real-life person who can talk to you should you need to. My other suggestion would be to chart your temperatures so you can identify exactly what is going on with your body and when is the optimal time to try to become pregnant. I will be praying for you, your family, and your efforts.
:)B.

Camille,

Look into natural alternatives, the National Library of Medicines, www.pubmed.gov can help by researching, in the search box enter xanthones ,
xanthones are powerful nutrients found in plants.

This has helped so many people, xanthones help in regulating our hormones and our whole body.

thanks,
Oly

My sister had similar issues, and the doctor recommended that they "try" every other day instead of everyday to let my brother-in-laws count build up in between. Good Luck. Relax. It will happen for you.

I am not sure about the fsh score. But something that ended up being the problem for me was I ovulated irregularly. The key. Try to do it every night. And remember it might not be the wow factor, you have a small child and life if very busy. I only have a couple of minutes, gotta take a sick on to the Dr. But wow after 6 years of trying it work, plus de-stressing by both of us leaving jobs that even thought they paid more we hated. Sometimes it might be every other night, but the key was you never knew when I was going to ovulate so doing it as much as possible was the key. FYI when I had my period was not the key and nothing else we did worked. All I can say is that is what we did to make it happen. No meds or any thing just good old fashion doing it as often as you can. I hope this helps.

Hi Camille. I saw your post earlier in the week, but just now had time to respond. After 2 years of trying to get pregnant on our own, I finally went to a fertility specialist at the age of 37. The doctor and staff were so friendly, but also doubtful that I would be able to have a baby since my eggs seemed to be that of a menopausal woman, my fsh was around 28, and I only had 3 viable eggs even after taking clomid. The doctor even wanted to discuss using donor eggs, but I wanted to try with my own first. (I tried to find out my exact fsh number but can't find that paperwork anywhere. We've moved 2 times since then!!) Anyway, I got pregnant after the very first round/month of fertility treatments. We have a beautiful 3 1/2 year old daughter who is truly a miracle. Don't give up hope or your faith. If your truly want another child, there is always a way to make it happen. Stress is a HUGE factor in fertility problems. Take care of yourself.

Hi Camille,

Don't fret if it is ment to be it will happen. You can always have more fun trying again. My cousin was told she couldn't have any children, but after ten years of trying and waiting she and her husband are blessed with their first child. Truly a blessing. Have you considerd seeing a fertility specialist or looking into adopting a child?

Camille,

First let me say how sorry I am. I've never miscarried, but I have had fertility issues and it can break your spirit and crush your soul. A little bit on my struggle...We tried for our first (almost 5 year old boy) and as we were about to start fertility meds found out we were pregnant. Tried for #2 (almost 5 month old girl), went through fertility, but found it was too hard for me. I have great respect for women that survive the trenches of multiple fertility treatments. We decided to adopt and started the process of adopting a baby girl from China. A year into the process we found out we were pregnant. My husband and I have had many joys and many, many disappointments and heartbreaks.

My best advice is to make sure you have an OB-GYN that you absolutely adore and is on the exact same page, paragraph, line, word, and letter with you. There is nothing worse than working with a doctor whose heart is not right there with you and your struggles.

The good news is that you have a beautiful son and you were obviously able to get pregnant and maintain the pregnancy. Try to focus on that (I know, I know....MUCH easier said than done). Also remember, Camille, the feelings you have are so valid. You're not whining, you're just horribly sad. What people don't understand is that it is this constant cycle of possibility, waiting, hoping, more waiting...then gut wrenching disappointment. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I get it! You're not crazy or whiney. It's real. It's valid, and you have every right to feel the way you do and you don't have to justify it. Hang in there. Try like heck to enjoy the day-to-day and take it one step at a time. I hope that helps a little :)

Camille,

As everyone else has said, I'm truly sorry for your loss. I'm writing because the fertility issue is close to my heart. I am 43 years old and have a beautiful 3 year old girl who we conceived with Clomid/IUI through the fertility clinic in Austin. My husband and I wanted to have another child so we went back to the fertility clinic and started on Clomid over a year ago. The physician decided to recheck my FSH and it was 13 (previously it was 7). We continued with the Clomid and checked for follicles. Since I was still producing eggs, we continued with clomid/iui for 2 months then decided to do injectible/iui. After 5 months with the injectible/iui we decided to do IVF. We had 2 excellent embryos to transfer but I'm sad to say we did not get pregnant. The clinic I went to was great. I've referred many of my friends there and they have had successful pregnancies. The docs make sure you have all the information needed to make the right decision for you. Until I did fertility I didn't realize how many women in their 30's/40's have fertility issues and require assistance. The number of moms who have conceived via fertility treatments in my practice are evidence of that. I know how you feel, being blessed to have a child but desiring another. I hope you will be blessed with another child.

Angel

Hi Camille, I too have been stuggling with fertility. Over a year ago we start TTC, but things prevent it. First I wasnt ovulating and then I found out I had high scores of prolactin so we ran test and I had a brain tumor. After acouple months on clomid still no baby and my doctor has increased my dosage and if not pregnant this month they will add metformin. The other mom whom told you be on the same page with you OBGYN that is so true. I have been a patient from my Dr. for 5 yrs and all is great but when I couldnt get pg he sent me to someone who was specialized in that field. I went and found that dr very unkind and just money hungry? I know that sound ugly but that is how I felt. So I looked for another OBGYN whom had dealt with people who did reversal and low and behold he is wonderful. He is so kind and gentle and made me feel safe!!!! It was a wonderful experience he is willing to listen to my concerns and always tries different method try help you concieve. (As far as that other patient told me that is what he does). I have been his patient for 2 mths and it is wonderful. I also did alot of research on OV Watch currently I am using it as well and it helps you know when you are ovualting 4 days prior. As we speak I am during my phase and I have long cycles and I am very irregular. So this device was highly recommend for me!! I paid 200.00 for it and it came with three sensors and the promo is you dont get pg with three sensors they will give you another 3 sensors cost is about 100.00 for those sensors. The famous bachorlette used it and it was featured on Tyra Banks show. But anyways I hope you have a chance to look into the watch, I will keep you updated with my status. Good Luck & May the Lord Bless you with a child.

Camille,
Let me first express my sympathy for your loss. It is something we always remember.
I know you want to help your body be as healthy as possible in order to conceive and to have a successful pregnancy. I would like to point you to some information which might be beneficial to you and others who are having a tough time getting pregnant.
If you will go to this webiste, www.juiceplus.com/+bb17257, and click on The Science of Juice Plus and then go to what Professionals Say, read and listen to Doug Odom, an OB/GYN. Also, listen to the other doctors and read the research completed and the research underway.
After doing that, if you would like to discuss this further, contact me at: ____@____.com
I hope you have a successful pregnancy soon.
Beryl B

I'm 45 yrs old, I have 3 children, 18, 15 & 3. Each child is a joy. Our 3 yr old has brought back wonderful memories of the older ones. My advise is to listen to your Drs. there is
so much they can do to help you. I've also had 4 miscarriages and the memories are painful. As time passes it does get better, but you never forget or wonder how that child would've been. God is a good God, a loving God, he knows our heart and understands a mothers heart.

Camille,

I have had female problems for years (and I have 5 kids), do you have any that you know of? Relax, RELAX, R E L A X!!!! The more you stress out about having a baby, the more your body responds to your stress.

P.

I have met a lady that conceived late in life while on birth control. She said she had had a colonic to clear her digestive system. This also washed out her birth control
effectiveness. Maybe this could help you conceive also.